Showing posts with label life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label life. Show all posts

Thursday, January 06, 2011

armchair activism

okay, so a facebook friend posted a report this morning on bottled water brands - you can read it here:

http://shine.yahoo.com/event/green/best-and-worst-bottled-water-brands-2436818

it certainly was a big issue when Nestle started the process to pull spring water from my hometown area...and i don't want to minimize the issue at all - related to wet lands and natural resources and even bottled water itself.

however - it also brought to mind the fact that at the same time, the whole issue seems very 'trivial' to me. i have been to third world countries. they don't have a choice of turning on a tap or picking a particular brand of bottled water. so it's hard for me to get on board with a bottled water issue, or an organic produce issue or chicken breasts enhanced with a 'broth solution'. the fact of the matter is that life for me is so much better than what they could even dream of as being available, that i can't get all up in arms about it here. it doesn't make me happy, and i think that there are changes that should be made....however, i've got a 'big picture' view right now that's a little more global.

there will be something that will kill me. it could be the 'dow cloud' i live under. or the water or artificially-sweetened soda or the steroid-enhanced meat. or old age. or a car accident. who knows.

but i do know this - my life expectancy is much longer than the vast majority of the world's population, and it's simply because i was fortunate enough to have been born here.

SO - this morning's article on water reminded me of a blog post by one of my fav scrapbookers, Cathy Zielske, who organized some fundraising for a charity that spearheads clean water projects in places that need them. you can read her original post here (i loved it, clearly...) i did donate to her cause, and her goal of raising $5000 to fund a water project was met and exceeded, to the tune of nearly $9000.

it was easy for me to donate. i sat at my computer (which you are doing right now). i read what she had to say. i clicked the link and read what the charity had to say. i found it important enough to part with a few dollars. which i could do, all while still sitting at my computer.

so it got me thinking this morning...collectively, Cathy's blog readers made a difference in the lives of hundreds. all because we read her blog, clicked a link, and punched in some credit card numbers and donated money rather painlessly (my budget does certainly have room for an extra $20 a month...)

i don't have the number of blog readers she does. but i do have over 300 facebook friends. so what if i made donating easy for them, too?! and what if, instead of one project a year, i find a couple, and collectively, me and my facebook friends could start a little 'armchair activism' and make a difference.

cathy references something in her blog post that i also strongly believe in.
I realize there a countless charities in the world that need time, money and help to succeed in all of their respective and extremely worthy goals. I fully and completely understand this.
everyone has their own issues and their own causes. and i totally respect that...i donate to certain charities because they are important to me for one reason or another. they may not be your first choice, and then again, your cause may not be my own, either...

but my goal here is to make donating easy. because even armchair activism can make a difference. and if you're someone who already donates to the causes of your choice - great! if you want to hop on board with some of mine - FANTASTIC! if charitable giving isn't a part of your life right now, might i suggest you give it a try - and i'll give you an easy way to do it...

can you spare $5 or $20 this month? will you send a link to a friend who might also help? how about again in April? if this month doesn't work (post-holidays and all), can you save a few pennies and donate to a cause later in the year?!

realistically - i think the answers to those questions are a 'yes' - so let's DO THIS!

here's what i'm thinking - i'm going to profile a charity (we'll start with charity:water, cause well, that's how my brain started moving gears this morning)....i'll set a goal... i'll provide a link for you to donate...and then, well, please do :) you won't do any donating thru me, because i don't want to be responsible for any money issues, or tax issues (because, of course, all of these will be tax deductible contributions)...then just comment on the blog post or facebook status and whatnot to let me know that you donated, and if you choose, the amount - no matter how big or small. we'll have to guesstimate total donations to see if our goal is met, but i can tell you, my goal will be in the $5000 range (that's less than $20 per facebook friend I have...but I know you all can't be on board, so share the love...) that's enough to fund a water project thru charity: water, or an ark through Heifer International...

and a year from now, we can all be patting our backs that we collectively made a difference in the lives of hundreds with tens of thousands of dollars in donations...and we never had to leave our computers...

(a final thought: if you think i'm totally crazy, that's fine. i suggest you watch the movie "yes, man". to quote jim carrey's character "i wasn't open to stuff, and now i am, and things are changing for me." none of my other friends are organizing such an effort - so it might as well be me. i hope you'll join me.)

***i have posted our first campaign - please read about it here to donate***

Thursday, November 18, 2010

my mountains

so i posted this today as my facebook status:

Dr. Seuss inspiring me today: Today is your day! Your mountain is waiting. So... get on your way.

and then i left the house - at 8:45am - to take molly to swim lessons. then we stopped at the post office. then we went to meijers. where we didn't pull back into the driveway til a few minutes after noon.

and for the second time this month, i had a $300 grocery bill. ugh.

so i'm tired.

and i whined to myself.

and i reminded myself - i'm still climbing this mountain. go put the dang groceries away.

and then i was reminded of a time a year or so ago that i had a similar grocery bill, only instead of the self check-out, i went through a lane with an actual person.

and she made a remark at the end about how much money i just spent on groceries, and basically, that i didn't even bat an eyelash at the bill. and she couldn't imagine doing that.

now THAT could be my mountain. though i have already climbed that mountain before and am very thankful that i don't have to anymore.

everyone has their own mountains. and some are harder to climb than others. and some have better equipment to climb with...ropes, and pulleys and safety nets...and some people have none of that. but they climb.

as we approach this season of thanks - and giving - and caring - i am very thankful for my mountains. i am very thankful for the equipment that has been given to me - by people - by education -and inherently, by God. every day a new mountain to climb. i know some will be higher and steeper than today's. i am thankful that i really am so very capable of climbing.

it is also a time for sharing your rope. becoming a safety net. helping pull someone up.

so...get on your way!

Tuesday, September 08, 2009

first day of school - for all four!

and so here they are, for yet another year...big year this year...all four kids are in school at some point during the day!

molly has started preschool two mornings a week

porter is in Kindergarten! he's afternoon kindergarten, which is just about killing him to be waiting to go...after we dropped molly off at school...he wanted to eat lunch (at 8:15am!) because he knows he gets to go to his class after lunch!


maya is in second grade - and actually in a classroom that is a 1st/2nd grade split...


and ms. lilly is starting 4th grade, and for the first time, she's got a male teacher...


is it just me, or do they all look too old?
oh...and cute...

Wednesday, July 15, 2009

geocaching

what is it and why do we do it?

well, we've had friends who have been geocaching - and it was intriguing enough that i figured out how to make the garmin we have for our car (as opposed to a handheld that is traditionally used for hiking and geocaching, etc) work for our purposes...

and so we now enjoy this 'treasure hunting' hobby - by downloading clues and coordinates for 'caches' that we hunt for...sometimes it's just a log book (or a small scroll!) - other times we find rubbermaid containers that have tradeable items (dollar store type items, or happy meal toys, etc) it's a fun, 'free' activity that our whole family enjoys...and we have some GREAT geocaching stories (like the 8 bee stings maya got at one location....or how we drove to new jersey just to find a cache....)

here's some pictures of us out and about (we try to remember to take one of every cache we've found...)



Tuesday, June 30, 2009

Monday, June 22, 2009

molly is HOW old?!?


we celebrated molly's birthday in so many ways....

the day before her birthday, she got her own library card and checked out her own books!


on her actual birthday, molly's choice of activities included a trip to Dow Gardens and the sprinkler park...where she played with bubbles and dined on fruit snacks...she also enjoyed a 'traditional' fast-food lunch of choice - this year was KFC mac and cheese (last year was McD McNuggets...)

then she spent the night at grandmom and grandpop's for her first 'alone overnighter' - the older kids rotate through spending the night at there without the other kids...but molly had previously been too young...well not now! clearly it suits her well...


the day after her birthday, we celebrated by having a 'party' for her at the Loons game - our minor league baseball team here in town...Lou E. Loon came to wish molly a happy birthday, and we enjoyed the group outing, complete with fireworks...

two days after her birthday (which also happened to be father's day) she finally got to open her birthday presents from us....(who brushes this kid's hair?!?)

it was a great celebration for a great little girl!

Saturday, June 20, 2009

let's dance!

the three older kids all participated in dance this year - at a new studio - and instead of a traditional recital, it's more of a production - this year was Peter Pan based. here they are with their instructor (all three had the same one!) ms. tracy - after opening night...


all three kids earned the 'Hardest Worker' awards for their class!


Porter even earned himself a special spot in the show - so he had two costumes just like the girls - and a little cameo as a mouse who scares pirates.


we had loads of fun...though the first show was on molly's birthday, she got to spend her first overnight by herself at grandmom & grandpop's...so we took the three deserving, older kids out for a post-show treat at pizza sams...a local pizza and ice cream establishment.

bravo, guys!

Tuesday, May 12, 2009

since i checked in last...

I went to florida for spring break with the family...


the easter bunny came...while we were in florida!!


i had a daughter that turned seven.....and we hosted a bowling party for 14 first graders!!


i joined kate and tara for a night of cropping at one of our favorite detroit area scrapbook stores...


porter started soccer season....
so did jason (he's #37...)!!


maya and jason took in a tigers game...and maya got to run the bases...


our family adventure to a loons game was rained out...


i met jenna martin (who looks JUST like her dad...)


and the mega meet has come and gone...see the previous post!

Thursday, April 02, 2009

crack

(not relating to the previous post)...

for my mother and aunt(s) - for whom this blog seems to be crack....

i did NINE blog posts today on this blog - can you find them all??

a LONG car ride

it takes a lot of work to get this family ready for a nearly 24 hour drive to florida...starting with lots of snacks...

so here's what i prepped today...just for the kids...

18 packages of fruit snacks
12 granola bars
7 bags of trail mix
10 bags of goldfish crackers
10 bags of animal crackers
3 bags of cheez-its (box was running low...)
10 bags of raisins

and i'm sure tomorrow i'll throw in some string cheese and apples, possibly even some go-gurts.

here's hoping this stash lasts us all the way there.

Thursday, March 05, 2009

saving lives

in a process that started many, many months ago...by best friend, and pediatrician, lynn, has embarked on a year-long mission with Doctors Without Borders (MSF).

with just about one month's notice, she received her assignment that she would be sent to rural India for a year...lynn has traveled the globe sharing her medical expertice in haiti, australia, africa, and along the arizona/mexican border. and now she's packed up her life and just arrived to start saving lives in india...

we took the family for a great going-away gathering at her mom's house in mid-february...

here she is with her dog that will be cared for by her mother for the year she is gone...


through the beauty of the internet, it looks like we'll be able to communicate while she's gone...which is great, to say the least!

she has been updating her friends and family on her adventures via her facebook page, and after reading today, i thought i'd share a bit of her story - as it is so easy to forget what life is like in other parts of the world. and while our economy is struggling, which is no small matter, it is not what other countries and the citizens have to face.

we live in a world with clean water. grocery stores. health care.

and so throughout this year, as some of her stories strike me, i will include them here. i hope you enjoy...

Woah! Delhi is nuts. Don't get me wrong; I like it, but it's busy, crowded, dusty, and full of honking horns. People here have been fantastic. No sigh-seeing yet, maybe tomorrow. More briefings - and in a nutshell, my job is to help start an MSF hospital, including outpatient and inpatient pediatrics, and inpatient maternal health. No hospital building yet, but lots of plans. I'll keep you posted! We also do 5 mobile clinics a week, walking about 40km a week total, carrying 10kg of stuff (mmm..Plumpy Nut pre-fab kid food) and hacking through a jungle. Can't wait! :)

Thursday, February 26, 2009

catching up

with two deaths in the family, mega meet work picking up, and just life in general, i haven't had the time, energy or thought process to put into this blog...here's hoping that that changes soon!

though next week i'm starting 'day care' here - and by that, i only mean i'm adding one kid to my bunch - the 6 week old baby of Jason's co-working pharmacist...i agreed to take him on when they were having some issues finding a day care they liked, so i'm giving a trial run until school is out...molly is BEYOND thrilled that 'baby peanut' will be here to 'bite her toys'...we'll see what she thinks after the first week!

so for today's blog entertainment, enjoy this KQOTD:

while watching Backyardigans this morning...

me: what are they doing?

porter: they are taking the pizza to tyrone, but he's going to get angry cause it's not what he wants.

me: oh, so you've seen this one before?

porter: yes, a really, really, really, really, really long time ago....

....like last week.


Thursday, February 05, 2009

one word

Type only one word answers

Where is your cell phone? Desk
Your hair? ponytail
Your father? courageous
Your favorite thing? hugs
Your dream last night? morning
Your favorite drink? chocolate
Your dream goal? impact
The room you are in? office
Your fear? future
Where do you want to be in 6 years? content
Muffins? please
One wish list item? peace
Where did you grow up? home
The last thing you did? facebook
What you are wearing? comfy
Your pets? several
Your computer? addiction
Your life? extraordinary
Your mood? contemplative
Missing someone? always
Your car? posh
Favorite store? ikea
Your favorite color? greenish
When is the last time you laughed? yesterday
Three people who email you? kate, tara, amy
Three of my favorite foods? sushi, ice cream, cookies
Three places I would rather be right now? bed, london, hawaii

first born

here's another facebook Q & A - of course, all my facebook friends are now getting a double dose, too...because these blog posts all go to my facebook page ....good grief. ah well.

1. WAS YOUR FIRST PREGNANCY PLANNED?
no

2. WERE YOU MARRIED AT THE TIME?
yes - for 8 months

3. WHAT WERE YOUR REACTIONS?
terrified

4. WAS ABORTION AN OPTION FOR YOU?
no

5. HOW OLD WERE YOU?
23

6. HOW DID YOU FIND OUT YOU WERE PREGNANT?
home pregnancy test, followed by a test at the health center

7. WHO DID YOU TELL FIRST?
jason - duh

8. DID YOU WANT TO FIND OUT THE SEX?
no

9. DUE DATE?
first it was the first week of november, then changed to nov. 29 i believe.

10. DID YOU HAVE MORNING SICKNESS
tons - for four months

11. WHAT DID YOU CRAVE
whoppers and most things from taco bell

12. WHO/WHAT IRRITATED YOU THE MOST?
'bad' foods and throwing up every day

13. WHAT WAS YOUR FIRST CHILD'S SEX?
female

14. DID YOU WISH YOU HAD THE OPPOSITE SEX OF WHAT YOU WERE GETTING?
no

15. HOW MANY POUNDS DID YOU GAIN THROUGHOUT THE PREGNANCY?
almost none - too much throwing up - i think it was less than 10 lbs...and after she was born, i weighed almost 15 lbs lighter than when i started my pregnancy

16. DID YOU HAVE A BABY SHOWER?
yes - my mom hosted one at my house

17. WAS IT A SURPRISE OR DID YOU KNOW?
i knew

18. DID YOU HAVE ANY COMPLICATIONS DURING YOUR PREGNANCY?
not really - other than doc was worried about my lack of weight gain, but the baby kept growing, so he wasn't that concerned!

19. WHERE DID YOU GIVE BIRTH?
Mecosta County General Hospital (now called Mecosta County Medical Center)

20. HOW MANY HOURS WERE YOU IN LABOR?
I think my water broke around 11:30pm and she was born before 3AM

21. WHO DROVE YOU TO THE HOSPITAL?
jason - had to stop a couple times in the parking lot because of contractions - it was awful

22. WHO WATCHED YOU GIVE BIRTH?
jason and my doc and a nurse - but because it was Thanksgiving weekend, we had a ton of visitors the next day, including my brother and his wife, both sets of grandparents, my aunt and bff

23. WAS IT NATURAL OR C-SECTION?
Natural

24. DID YOU TAKE MEDICINE TO EASE THE PAIN?
too fast of a labor for an epidural that i desperately wanted - i think i got a shot of something - and tylenol after - whoopee.

27. HOW MUCH DID YOUR CHILD WEIGH?
hmm - i think 7 lbs. 15 oz..i'd have to check (is that bad??)

28. WHEN WAS YOUR CHILD ACTUALLY BORN
Nov. 28 - 2:49AM (the saturday of Thanksgiving weekend)

30. WHAT DID YOU NAME HIM/HER?
Lillian Marie

31. HOW OLD IS YOUR FIRST BORN TODAY?
9 years

random things

well, if you're not on facebook, you probably haven't heard of the random things...

but i posted mine back in december (back when the list was only suppose to have 16 things on it, but now it's up to 25...)

and i thought today, hey, there's lots of people who read my blog that aren't on facebook...so why not read my random things here??

and i'll probably post some of the other 'notes' here, too...those of you in 'both places' - sorry you're getting a double dose.

so here's my 16 random things:

1. I love cottage cheese - but basically only the Meijer brand - small curd.

2. I used to be addicted to Diet Coke...but I'm not sure I actually feel better now that I gave it up (for the most part).

3. I can obsess like nobody's business. About just about anything. I probably should be medicated.

4. I never thought I'd be a stay-at-home-mom.

5. I've been to Disney World more times that I can count and I still get verclempt walking down Main Street USA.

6. Someday I will design and make a really killer gingerbread creation.

7. I have a very large collection of JFK memorabilia.

8. I never thought I liked to read until I found Harry Potter, Edward Cullen and any book by Phillipa Gregory.

9. I have very few 'real' friends. (you know who you are!)

10. I have a very strong desire to adopt internationally. I've had the desire for as long as I can remember (for a long time I was going to adopt a 2 year old Korean boy named Peter...he didn't really exist, that's just what I wanted...).

11. I think I spent the better part of my college career battling depression - I just didn't know it.

12. I could not live without my laptop. I wish I could...but I can't.

13. I wonder and worry about what it will be like to be the parent of a teenager (let alone 4 teenagers at one time!)

14. I think Ben and Jerry are some of the smartest men on the planet. As is Jon Lasseter.

15. I was disappointed when i couldn't find any Cap'n Crunch Christmas Crunch in the store today...there's still more than a week until Christmas - so help me, I better be able to eat my Christmas Crunch!

16. All four of my grandparents were still living when I was 30 years old.

Friday, January 02, 2009

happy new year

i vacuumed again to today to attempt to drag confetti and streamers into every other room, instead of every room, for the next week.

Friday, December 19, 2008

getting old...

so...this week, for the first time, i saw a doctor because i was having some annoying 'symptoms' of something and wanted answers...so i went...and then i had, like, lab tests...and all those things that people who are 'getting older' have to do. and today i got my results...and wouldn't you know, i require medication.

i suppose i shouldn't complain too much, as it is the necessity of medication that supports my family, but still...i just never thought it would be me.

oye.

Thursday, December 18, 2008

so many blog posts on the brain...

i swear i will share them....daily december and 80th birthdays and trips to great wolf lodge...why can't christmas be another month away???

Monday, December 15, 2008

kid council

so several months ago, we're enjoying a nice family dinner when one of the children mentioned that they would like to make another family trip to great wolf lodge . we have been twice before, with the last trip when molly was only a few months old (her first trip to a pool...all the pictures of which were lost in a laptop crash...ah well).

anyway, i digress. the conversation continues about how difficult it is to go away sometimes, with the distance, and the expense and possibly missing school. we propose something 'to the council' - we will take you to great wolf lodge if you would like it as your christmas gift - no other gifts, just the trip.

after pretty short deliberation at the dinner table, they all reach a unanimous decision - they want the trip. we tell them that we will re-visit the topic in a few weeks to make sure that this is still their desire.

a week or two later, we discuss again. yes, their vote remains the same. and thus, as parents, we began the process of the 'christmas surprise'...

we book a room at a pretty good rate...we discuss with teachers...we deflect future conversations saying that we don't know if it's going to work...we talk to swim teachers....and choir directors....and secretly pack the kids and even load the van to the near top.

it's saturday morning - just like any other and we tell the kids to eat breakfast and get dressed...we have some errands to run (like Christmas shopping) so we're all going out...

we pile them in the car and remarkably, no one notices that the back of the van has suitcases in it...we successfully distracted them with our new GPS unit and by putting on a movie..."it's going to be a bit of drive to the one store we want to go to..." we say, "so sit back and relax..."

porter asks if we can go to the toboggan run later...we remark that we don't know if it's open yet, but maybe, if they're good while we're shopping, we can go to the community center pool.

we drive and drive. they ask where we're going, but only about 3 times. we're nearly to traverse city (2 hours of driving later!) when we stop for lunch, telling them that we're almost to the store, so it's best if we eat first and then we can get the shopping done. so we eat...and we climb back into the van...with just 5 miles to go.

I'm in the left-hand turn lane...into the resort. lilly reads the sign..."great wolf lodge?!??" and she and maya look at each other..."WE'RE GOING TO GREAT WOLF LODGE???!!?!?" and they say - no wonder you said we could go to the pool this afternoon!

and we pull in and say "merry christmas"...

i never thought in my wildest dreams that they wouldn't have guessed we were going within the first hour of the trip. but they didn't - and their surprise when we arrived was totally worth it.

we got our fill of the waterpark.





we enjoyed story time and the 'snow' in the lobby.

we had sugar cookies and milk delivered to our room as a 'sleepy time' snack.

and we ate out at some of the kid's favorite restaurants.

they loved the trip, and the fact that they got to 'skip' of day of school to do it.
quality family time - what the holiday season should be all about.

(ps - they'll still be getting some gifts on Christmas, too...but they don't know that yet!)